My lovely ladies,
When you want a man, you must consider the following: he is deserving of your love? He it’s the right man for you? Because i do this for almost 10 years, and in a lot of sessions, my clients tell me that he love them, but it’s too much of love, so he prefere that, sometimes, go away, in order to detach from situations. And they find this normal. No, it’s not normal. If a man consider you to be his partner, he will not leave, and he will not play games.
I truly believe that men want relationships as much as we do, but our mentality it’s very different. If you want a man, you must shut down your emotional side, and embrace the logical one. For real, what this man is bringing in your life? At what level? How you can evolve being by his side? Because men are interested in what you bring to the table, not how much you do for them.
If, at any point of your dating, your man decide to leave, or play games, that is not the right man for you, because he will continue to play games. He know almost from the strat, what role you will play in his life; but you dont. Because us, women, are impressed by how good men around us can behave, and start to develop some crazy imagination story, like all this situationship can grow into a relationship, if only he can give us a chance.
You must remain with this in your mind: if he leave, and then come back to you, that mean that he couldn’t find better. But, if you love yourself, he will either change, or leave, and another man, the right man, will come into your life.
Technique: write down at least 3 of your experiences, and see how men treated you in the past. Now, look at your life, and imagine that a new man will come into your life and treat you the same way. If you are not offended by his behaviour then you must heal yourself, do self love techniques and meditations, and change your life.
Love yourself and the whole world will be a better place, for us all.