Love should be that fantastic emotion that brings us supreme happiness, no matter how our life goes in the rest. But unfortunately, sometimes, we fall in love with people who either do not respond to our feelings, or discover later that they were not our best choice at that time. And then how do we have the courage to be able to break away from that person without suffering too much?
One of the reasons you should start falling in love is that it’s just you giving up. Love should mean reciprocity. Because you can’t build something unless you bring in each one. Even if at first you think it is ok to do everything, at one point you will discover that you actually gave a lot of energy from yourself, the other just waiting to receive more and more. Because, if not, if you get used to it, it will be difficult to convince him that he should do something else.
You have to understand that a sentimental relationship means caring for one another. If the partner does not feel the need to protect you, to help you, to appreciate you at your true value, then you risk losing your self-esteem. Because we, on an energetic level, are beginning to feel very much like the couple’s partner from a certain moment onwards. So, in order not to destroy yourself, think that you can always find a person who deserves you, you just have to be open.
Stop being obsessed with that person. Decide that from now on you are no longer a couple and that you have to cut the strings that will bind you. Make plans alone, go to the places where you traveled together, but now alone. You have to “destroy” in your heart everything you have built during the relationship, just to be able to rebuild yourself, that at one point you can enter with an open heart into another relationship.
No one can help you more than you can help yourself. Decide that one stage in your life is over and that, to start a much more beautiful one, you must break from the past.