My lovely ladies,
Each and every one of us have at least one relationships that we regret having it; because, with our eyes form now, we consider that we will act different. Yes, but now we know better, and of course will do better. All of us must learn some things from our experiences, in order to apply, and attract the right guy.
I personally believe that, if we love ourselves, and if we go very much on self love, and unconditional love, automatically will attract a type of man that WE are, on feminine energy. So, if you love yourself, but you forget about yourself in some aspects of your life, that man will not appreciate fully, and this is because you dont appreciate fully.
Look at the women that are around you: how many of them are in harmonious relationships? Can be family, friends, colleagues, etc. Our energy is heavily influenced by the people that are around us, so think twice before you accept a certain friend close to you. For example, when i want something, i make sure i have at least 5 friends that already have that, and i start work hard on myself, for that.
Self love mean you put yourself first in your life, and no matter what type of men you will attract, will stay only men that are behaving in a way that you accept. Yes, is very possible that it will take time, but it totally worth it.
Technique: try to figure out exactly what you want from a relationship, and write like 10 pages, minimum. After that, write them at least once per day, and do some meditation and visualization. And from time to time you can adjust what you write, that mean you start to change, and really know what you want.