My lovely ladies,
We can always find at least a man that want to be with us. But, unfortunately, that one guy that respect us, and protect us, and take care of us, its too boring for what we think we want in a relationship. So, at least at some point, we run and chase after men that are not available to us, and create a lot of situationships, where its not the case.
Now, let’s see from logical point of view: what you want from a certain relationship? What it is more important to you? To have love and a loving and fulfilling relationship, or to chase after a man that you dont know if he will love you back, or give you what you need. Because yes, my beauties, it’s all about us, and what we want. Men built this world for us, to impress us. So, why you try to impress a man that probably try to impress another woman?
Put yourself frist, and see all the men that are around you: in what way they are up leveling your life? And how many of them try to be your boyfriend? In a lot of cases, those men just hangout with you in order to keep you around, just in case. It’s not about love, and it’s not about commitment, it’s about your life and what do you want to have. Us, women, tend to love a man who can give us the world. We weren’t suppose to give the world to a man that doesn’t want us.
And, like always, the solution is self love. How many of you try to be in a committed relationship with a man that didn’t knew you existed? Or with a man that knew you love him, but do nothing? Men know that we are nurturing, and invest time and energy in a relationship, and it will be very hard to leave.
If you don’t love yourself, unconditionally, then you will not attract a man who can be interested in you, and love you the way you deserve.
Technique: write daily on a notebook all this journey on self discovery, and attract the man you want. Every day you must write at least one action that you took in order to make your life better.
Love yourself and the whole world will be a better place, for us all.